Today most of the young people are looking for the perfect person to fall in love with, to be with, share life with. Most of them are looking just for permanent adventure, love, just someone to kill time with. No, love is greater than that.
Humans are meant to be social beings... We need each other each moment of our lives, even we admit it or not. We need to talk, to feel, laugh, be sad, touch, just hang out with... There are people who easily fall in love or just feel love, but there are those who can never experience a sense of love.
Sometimes the fact that you are friend with someone not means much to us. We get across it and just leave it there... This fast life make us rush and don't pay attention on the real values. Most of us are frustrated and just want to get the best for our self, don't caring how are others. Sadly, there are lot of jealous, envy , mad...people who will do anything just to get to the imagined finish... There is a lot of pain in each relation... If you have a strong friendship nothing can come across it. And from a strong friendship between two sex it can grow in a beautiful relationship.
I again choose relationships coz i believe they are most valued, prefect, needed part of our being. Relationship, being friendship or more, is sensitive thing, like tiny ice near fire, or fire near ocean...
Perfection... something that human can't be... We all wanna reach it in lot of ways, trying to get the best, our imaginative ideals and stuff like it... No, we can never reach perfection. There is a difference between perfection and dream. We can fulfill our dreams but will never reach perfection, only God is perfect. Tho He made us by His image, we are born like sinners and we can't be perfect. We get a gift of eternal life from Him by His mercy, we cannot earn is with good deeds or something else, it is ONLY and JUST gift of mercy... A wise man told once: "God has created you and me with this vacancy inside that can only be filled with something eternal; something that has no ending. And that's why that hole in your heart has never really gone away. Friendships end, romances end, even marriages, by death or divorce end. And every pleasure ends; every experience ends. And our heart gets tired of saying again, "It's over." God made you for something perennial - something that's never over!"
Whatever it's a relationship, or finances, or a ministry goal, or getting justice, or meeting a need - wherever you're tempted to try to make it happen - don't. Just remember those blossoms whose instincts told them it was time when it wasn't. If it's blooming too soon, it probably won't make it. But in God's time - which is probably later than yours - in His time, it will be beautiful.
Back to relationships... You can have you imagination of the perfect one, but in the end God decides about anything. HE will let you love and be loved by someone if you seek Him 1st and fallow His words. He don't want you to suffer, and if you get in any kind of relationship which will end up with pain, don't blame Him, you are the one who messed up. God will give you everything you ask for, anything you need, but in His time. You can have all the fun, love, touches given by your true friends, don't search for romances. Romance will come by it self, and when it comes you will know it. Heaven will sing with you, Bible verses will tell it so, you will feel it, you will just know it by peace, happiness, blessing you feel. But you have to know to make a difference between all those when they happen by Devil or God. God let Devil give us some of those feeling time to time, but it is a lot different when God gives us those. But if you truly and deeply seek God, you will just know it and you wont suffer, you will be truly, deeply, unconditionally blessed every second of your life.
See also http://startofsomethingnew777.blogspot.com/2009/08/purify-me.html
Wishing you all the best, good luck.
Dorotea Santo
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